When a wife’s cheating she does it for different reasons than husbands do.
This section has been written specifically for men who believe their wife’s cheating on them.
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A cheating wife may be cheating as a desperate plea for help or just because she needs change in her life. It is estimated that thirty to sixty percent of women cheat on their husbands or boyfriends compared to fifty to seventy percent of men. Regardless of the comparison between the wife’s cheating versus husbands cheating, the number of cheating women is very high. The question is, “Why are so many women taking secret lovers? Why do women cheat?
The majority of cheating wives take the affair very seriously – for most it’s not just a spring fling. It’s often done by women who appear to have it all. A cheating wife may be the one who has a handsome, successful husband, a couple of lovely kids and a nice home in a good neighborhood. All the things she may have aspired to years ago have now actually caused her to become a cheating wife. It is the routine and boredom brought about by food shopping, cooking, cleaning and looking after children that make her feel cornered, lonely and bored. The chemicals that naturally occur in the brain to cause contentment, wellbeing and generally good moods are not stimulated. Often the cheating wife’s husband doesn’t even notice. His supply of dopamine gets topped off daily with all the challenges of getting ahead on the job while her life of routine monotony appears endless.
A cheating wife doesn’t necessarily wake up one day and decide to become an adulteress, however when someone sexy comes along at the right time and pays some attention to her, she doesn’t need much persuasion. A cheating wife’s reasons to take a secret lover is mainly because they’re not getting all their needs met in the marriage. This may be true even if the sex with her husband is good.